Jan 6 2015, 06:09 PM Jan 6 2015, 06:09 PM Post #1 Inappropriate Show nested show morbid mecha.. I Hate Myself !!! Permalink) this is a thing now 691mprimackaxios? im so sorry for the lurve of you who read this! but its true! i am in love with my car! and its not really that long since my first kiss an d thats it. well actually its last week-end! because as per usual, life got in the way. so here are some things you need to do if your bad friend is going to be your car-buddy:
Be a good listener.
When you’re in love you’re always on the listening end. You are in the listening so much that you might as well be talking to people as you listen. You might be reading emails, reading blogs, talking to yourself, or even listening to your phone. When you’re in love you want to be there for your friend. You are, after all, the one who will sit in the passenger seat and drive the car. You aren’t the driver. You should be the one who takes the initiative to get going, who takes the first pull, who does the first push, who takes the first hit. If you’re not interested in other people’s problems, you’re probably not in love with your own. Get to know your problem(s) and try to solve them. If you’re not ready to talk about it, don’t be afraid to ask. You’re probably going to be wasting your time if you don’t ask.
Be the first to offer feedback.
If you’re already in love with your car and you’re willing to give advice, give it to other people. Make sure to petty one thing though. For example, if someone gives you a “thumbs up” or a “thmiks up” when you drive but doesn’t say anything else, be careful. You never know what other people are thinking. Be upfront and honest when you’re first communicating with them. If you don’t immediately get a “thumbs up” or a “thmiks up” from someone, don’t be too hard on yourself. Take a step back and take note of the other person’s point of view. You might be reading the other person’s minds just as you are reading theirs, and you might not be able to take the other person’s point of view 100%.
Ask for advice.
If you’re stuck in a rut and your friend doesn’t have any advice to give, ask. You never know what other people are thinking, and you don’t want to give them a bad example. Be honest with yourself. You might not be the most popular person in the world but if someone asks you for advice, you should probably give it to them. Even if they don’t want to talk or don’t feel ready to talk, you can still be honest with them and help them understand how they can benefit from your friendship.
Sometimes you have to say yes to things. Like, sometimes you have to say yes to things that are really big. Like, say, first dates or bedrooms. It doesn’t matter how big the event is, if you can’t touch your friend and crawl into bed with them when you’re supposed to, then don’t be a part of it. It’s not fair and it isn’t worth it. If you’re drinking and driving or even just drinking a little bit, get help. Do it right and get a lawyer. Do it wrong and you’re probably going to end up in jail. Be careful. If you start drinking and driving, it’s probably because someone has been driving you wrong. If it’s your best friend, drive slowly and slowly make mistakes. But don’t drive like a lunatic.
Don’t drink and drive.
Although it might sound like a good idea to drink and drive, it’s not something you want to do. Especially not on a day like today when you have to drive to work, school, and home. So, don’t do it. Go for a regular route. Drive safe. If you don’t drink and drive, you won’t get in trouble. But, if you’re an even more frequent drinker, you might get in trouble by driving while he or she is under the influence. If you’re under the influence of alcohol, don’t drink and drive. Be careful. Even if you think you’re in control of the vehicle, someone could still come up behind you and cut you off. Be smart. Be safe.
Don’t drink and drive when driving.
Do it! Drink and drive is a mistake. It’s not worth it. What you’re doing is selfish. You’re actually hurting the car. You’re damaging the car and you’re putting yourself in danger. The best thing to do is take the car to the shop and have it MOT driven. Then, when you get home, have your mechanic look at it and see what he or she thinks. Then, when you’re done, take the car to the dealer and have them look at it and see how they want it driven. That way, you’re sure to know what’s what.
Get a grip on your emotions.
It might sound like a no-brainer, but you need to get a grip on your emotions. You have to stop throwing those tantrums and Start expressing yourself. By no means do I need to be told what to do, do or not to do. But, when you’re in love you need to start having some control over your emotions. You need to stop being so reactive and start being proactive. What you need to do, in essence, is to say no to everything. If someone challenges you on something, say no. If they start asking for things, tell them no. If they keep asking, say yes.
Take a break sometimes-like now!
It might sound like a no-brainer, but sometimes you have to take a break from the things that make you money. If you’re in love, you need to take a break from the things that make you money. You can do this by saying no to everything. You can take a walk while you’re still free. You can take a meal break while you’re still hungry. Whatever you need, say no to and go do. So, when you’re not in the mood for anything, say no and take a break.
Now that we’ve gone over the basics of how to handle a bad friend, let’s see how we do best. Now that you know what to do in the event of an unwanted guest, it’s time to set up your own little getaway. You can start with your car-buddy. If you’re really bad at getting things done, you can always pick up a phone and get help. It sure wouldn’t be warm and cozy in there without you.